Friday, January 22, 2010

Thoughts cluster.

Today I spent some time for myself...well not in the parlour or the loooo. I sat down to think what my mind thinks and why it thinks so ( I know thats also a part of thinking). But it was after a telephonic talk with a close friend who made me realise that since some days all i did was criticizing the people and their work around me. Ghosh! good i realised,or else i was turning into a grumbler. I know nobody's perfect in this world ...even me, yet why do i expect everything around me to be just upto the mark. As there are variety of people so there are variety of temperaments. When we point out to others mistakes we generalize them to be good for nothing or bad people. But why dont we see that the so-considered bad people can also have a good side. The bad part developed in them has come from some bad incident which must have occured in their life. This gives birth to the evil side of theirs where they want nobody around them to be happy and suffer the same way they lived.......sounds like one of the K-series i guess.
Well finally my point is that when someone behaves badly with you what do you do ?
As I surveyed among my friends 60% said," to err is human, to forgive is divine" ( the good Samaritans)30% said stay away from them(the bad ppl) and never go their way coz they can never improve even by forgiving, 8% said teach them back such a lesson that they will never dare to confront you again (these looked like the bhai-log). So what do i conclude with .......just as Gandhiji said when some1 slaps you on one cheek put forth your other cheek! No way then all i would be getting whould be slaps and slaps till i dropped back. Well i think thats too much off thinking for today. " I think the thought of sleeping is some good thinking" Yawn ......Godmite.......sorry Goodnight!

2 comments:

  1. Hope the good night sleep gave you clarity and everything was crystal clear!! :)
    Cheers :)

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  2. @ Shilpa -Ya ....it was a indeed a dreamy night that day. Thanks!

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